Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Justin And Lauren Shelton Lost More Than 500 Pounds Together/ Operation Confidence

Justin And Lauren Shelton Lost More Than 500 Pounds Together/ Operation Confidence 



Name: Justin and Lauren Shelton
Age: Justin: 27, Lauren: 26
Height: Justin: 6'0", Lauren: 5'5”
Before Weight: Justin: 592 pounds, Lauren: 341 pounds

How I Gained It:
Justin: I started gaining weight after a sports injury toward the end of middle school that prevented me from staying active. From there, I just continued to gain until it snowballed out of control.
Lauren: I have always been such an emotional eater. I turned to food for comfort, whether it was happiness, sadness, anger, stress or excitement that I was feeling. However, I started gaining weight rapidly my freshman year of high school after going through some personal issues. Over the years it continued to pile on until I reached 341 pounds. Eventually, we just accepted that we were overweight and stopped caring.

Breaking Point: Both of us have undergone several different moments when we realized just how overweight we were and needed to change, but it took something drastic to really motivate us.
Justin: I had to visit the emergency room in December 2011. I was too heavy for the equipment needed to test whether or not I had a kidney infection. They just had to guess and gave me a high dosage of antibiotics before sending me home. That was the wakeup call that I needed. I knew from that point on that I was tired of being overweight and would rather die trying to get healthy than spend another moment being miserable with myself.

Lauren: His trip to the ER was a wakeup call for me as well, because I saw how embarrassed and miserable he really was with himself. That made me take a hard look at myself and realize that I needed to lose the weight just as much as -- or more than -- he did.

How I Lost It: In February 2012, we looked to a physician assistant named Lynn at a local medical center. She gave us some great guidelines to start with. That night we cleaned out our cupboards and started from scratch the next day at the store. We cut out salt, breads, grains, oils, sauces and high-fat meats. We began eating a high-protein diet with lean meats and a lot of fresh fruits and vegetables. We only ate out on very rare occasions; I can count on two hands how often we have eaten out in two years!

We started small with exercise, but slowly started to increase it. Now we go to the gym, on average, six days a week and try to do something fun and active in the evenings and on our day off. Also, we knew we always had each other at our best and worst of times through this journey. It would have been so much harder without each other's support.

Our overall quality of life is better, and we can do so much more than we could before. We have learned to appreciate the little things that many people would never even think of: We can shop at normal clothing stores, buckle our seat belts on airplanes, sit in normal chairs and ride roller coasters. We are even trying activities that we were always too scared to do. Instead of our days being focused around where and what we are going to eat, we focus on how to stay active. It feels as though we have been given a second chance at life, one that we can look forward to each day and enjoy to the fullest! Although we are not quite finished, we feel happy with ourselves and what adventures may lie ahead of us!

After Weight: Justin: 245 pounds, Lauren: 164 pounds

Operation Confidence comments: Amazing... congratulations and much success 

Cathleen Alexis, Mother Of Navy Yard Gunman, Says 'My Heart Is Broken' In Statement

Cathleen Alexis, Mother Of Navy Yard Gunman, Says 'My Heart Is Broken' In Statement 



The mother of the man apparently responsible for killing 12 people at the Washington Navy Yard said that her "heart is broken" in an apology released Wednesday.
Cathleen Alexis, speaking from her home in Brooklyn, New York, lamented that she could not explain her son's horrific actions.

"I don't know why he did what what he did, and I'll never be able to ask him why," she said. "Aaron is now in a place where he can no longer do harm to anyone, and for that I am glad. To the families of the victims, I am so, so very sorry that this has happened."

The statement comes two days after her son, 34-year-old Aaron Alexis, opened fire at the Navy Yard around 8:20 a.m., killing a dozen people and wounding 14 others before dying in a shootout, according to police.

An ongoing investigation into the shooter's past has revealed details of his struggle with mental illness, including episodes of hearing voices, concerns of being followed, and the suspect's belief that people were using a microwave machine to send vibrations through his body.


Ayvani Hope Perez Found: Police Chief Says Abducted Teen Found Alive/Operation Confidence


Ayvani Hope Perez Found: Police Chief Says Abducted Teen Found Alive/Operation Confidence  



ELLENWOOD, Ga. — A 14-year-old Georgia girl abducted in a home invasion robbery was found alive on Wednesday after a massive search by multiple law enforcement agencies.

Ayvani Hope Perez had been taken from her home early Tuesday after authorities said robbers broke in, demanded money and jewelry and were told there was none. Authorities have said the robbery and abduction appeared to be random.

Clayton County Police Chief Gregory Porter said the girl was found in Conyers and has been reunited with her family.

"She's in good health, she's being evaluated as we speak," Porter said.
He said two suspects were in custody.

The FBI and the Georgia Bureau of Investigation assisted Clayton County police in the search.
Two men, described as wearing black clothing and armed with handguns, pried open a back door of the home in the Ellenwood area around 2:15 a.m. Tuesday, demanding the items, authorities said.

The family had moved in about a month ago and apparently didn't know the suspects, authorities said.
Ayvani's mother had her daughter and her 15-year-old son hiding inside the home, but the intruders were able to find them, police said in a statement. The men abducted Ayvani with no explanation, police said.

The crime happened on a cul-de-sac in Ellenwood, a small community about 10 miles southeast of Atlanta, police said. The subdivision of two-story homes is on the northern edge of Clayton County, just south of the DeKalb County line.

On Tuesday evening, more than 150 people gathered in a circle and held hands in prayer at the candlelight vigil at Dutchtown High School in Hampton.

Operation Confidence comments: As parents we are thrilled Ayvani is back at home.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Valerie Harper Earns Standing Ovation For Her 'Dancing With The Stars' Debut /Operation Confidence

Valerie Harper Earns Standing Ovation For Her 'Dancing With The Stars' Debut/Operation Confidence 



Anticipation was higher than usual for the upcoming 17th season of "Dancing With the Stars," and it was largely due to one celebrity contestant. Valerie Harper stunned the nation when she was announced as a part of the current cast of the long-running reality competition. The star of "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" and "Rhoda" was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer at the beginning of the year, and only given three months to live.

“I was given a death sentence," the 74-year old Harper said on the show. "And here it is, eight, nine months later. I’m way past my expiration date, and I’m dancing!”

She earned a respectable 21 points for her debut performance, and got a teary-eyed standing ovation from the crowd and her fellow competitors. It was inspirational and powerful to see her defying her diagnosis and living so fully in that moment. As Harper put it, “It’s good to be alive, and it’s even better to be dancing.”

People magazine's Dahvi Shira called her performance the "emotional highlight" of the premiere. Over at NBC News, Ree Hines admitted that Valerie's "flowing foxtrot" wasn't "the best of the night. But despite a few small rough spots, it was easily the sentimental favorite.”

For the first time this season, "Dancing With the Stars" doesn't have a separate elimination episode. As such, dancers will perform and be cut in the same episode, Mondays at 8 p.m. ET on ABC.

Operation Confidence comments: Congratulations Valerie, God loves you and America does to.

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Lady Gaga's Latest Instagram Photo Is Quite Bizarre

Lady Gaga's Latest Instagram Photo Is Quite Bizarre 



Lady Gaga is never one to shy away from trying out new trends -- that's probably why she decided to test out some facial masks.

Gaga posted a photo of her face mask look on Instagram this morning (Sept. 14), writing, "Had too much fun with my facial masks. Does it look like Margiela?"

Last week, Mother Monster stepped out in another bizarre mask for New York Fashion Week, but the one she shared on Instagram is a bit different. Sort of looks like paper mache for the face, no?

Times Square Shooting: 2 Reported Shot By Police

Times Square Shooting: 2 Reported Shot By Police 



NEW YORK — Two police officers fired on a man who was acting erratically and dodging cars on a busy Manhattan street Saturday night, wounding two bystanders and sending people running for cover, authorities said.

Police said the man made movements suggesting he had a weapon, though he turned out to be unarmed. The officers' shots missed him, and he was eventually brought down by a stun gun.
Authorities identified the man as Glenn Broadnax, 35, of Brooklyn. He faces multiple counts including menacing, riot, criminal possession of a controlled substance, and resisting arrest. He was in custody, and The Associated Press couldn't locate a phone listing for his home.

The encounter happened just before 10 p.m. near the Port Authority Bus Terminal, a block away from Times Square.

Officers saw a man on foot weaving through traffic and sometimes blocking vehicles.
"It appeared he wanted to be struck by cars," Police Commissioner Raymond Kelly said at an early morning news conference.

As officers approached, police said, the man reached into his pocket as if grabbing a weapon, and two officers fired a total of three shots. The bullets struck a 54-year-old woman in the right knee and a grazed a 35-year-old woman in the buttocks, police said.



Photos and video taken by onlookers showed a chaotic scene. Several officers tried to contain the man as he moved through an intersection, and he was finally brought down as people in the crowd yelled at police not to shoot him.

Broadnax was taken into custody after a sergeant subdued him with a Taser, police said. He was taken to Bellevue Hospital, where he was in stable condition, police said. Authorities described him as "emotionally disturbed."

The women were taken to hospitals, where they both were listed in stable condition, according to police. Neither had injuries considered life threatening, police said.

The officers who fired their weapons had been on the force for 1 1/2 years and 3 years, police said.
Police did not release the names of the women.

In August 2012, nine people were injured from bullets fired by police in a confrontation with a gunman near the Empire State Building. They were hit by stray bullets, ricochets and fragments, suffering non-life-threatening gunshot and graze wounds. Officials at the time defended the officers' decision to fire on a street crowded with people.

Police guidelines tell officers to avoid unnecessarily endangering innocent people. But police are allowed to use deadly force when faced with an imminent threat of serious injury or death.
On Sunday morning, several police vehicles and half a dozen officers were still stationed outside the bus terminal at the intersection of 42nd Street and Eighth Avenue, but the area was busy as usual, with crowds of tourists.






Police Arrest Victoria's Secret Thief

Police Arrest Victoria's Secret Thief

Jennifer Santos was arrested in Massachusetts on Friday afternoon.



A woman believed to have stolen more than $100,000 in merchandise from Victoria's Secret and Sephora stores in Massachusetts and New Hampshire was arrested Friday.

Jennifer Santos, 27, of 57 Cedar St., Lawrence, MA was charged in connection with a series of shoplifting incidents at the Northshore Mall in Peabody, MA. Police said previously that they believed the Northshore Mall thefts were linked to similar thefts at the Mall at Rockingham Park in Salem.

Contacted Friday night, Salem Deputy Police Chief Shawn Patten confirmed that Santos is the suspect in the Salem thefts as well.

Peabody Police said the multi-jurisdictional investigation lasted about four months, and Santos was taken into custody without incident at her residence around 2 p.m. on Friday.

A press release from Peabody, MA Police Capt. Dennis Bonaiuto said the department initiated its investigation in May, following repeated thefts from two stores at the Northshore Mall. The statement indicated those stores were Sephora and Victoria's Secret.

Police obtained a surveillance photo of the suspect which they provided to local news outlets in late August, asking the public for help in identifying the woman. Bonaiuto said investigators subsequently learned the suspect's identity, but could not locate her at first.

He said the investigation is still ongoing and includes other malls in Massachusetts and New Hampshire. Further charges may be forthcoming.

Santos will be arraigned in Peabody District Court on Sept. 16 on six counts of larceny over $250 and three counts of trespassing

LeBron James Married: Miami Heat Star Reportedly Weds Girlfriend Savannah Brinson In San Diego

LeBron James Married: Miami Heat Star Reportedly Weds Girlfriend Savannah Brinson In San Diego


 LeBron James wanted his wedding day to be perfect and private.It appears he got both.

With guests dining on a five-course dinner, prefaced by plenty of appetizers and all done under incredibly tight security, the Miami Heat star married his longtime partner Savannah Brinson on Saturday night at a posh resort in San Diego. Guests had their phones taken away for the ceremony and reception in an effort to ensure that no photos or details leaked out.

"A first-class affair," said one of the guests, who spoke to The Associated Press on condition of anonymity Sunday because the couple had yet to reveal any details of the event themselves. "Ceremony was short and sweet."

Many members of the Heat organization were there, including Dwyane Wade, Chris Bosh, managing general partner Micky Arison and coach Erik Spoelstra. Wade and girlfriend Gabrielle Union posted images of themselves dressed for the occasion on social media, as did Bosh and his wife Adrienne. Some of James' longtime friends were also in attendance, including his manager Maverick Carter.

"What a wonderful evening!!" Adrienne Bosh wrote on Twitter. "Congratulations to Mr. & Mrs. James...Thanks for sharing Ur night & love with us"

The ceremony was the obvious highlight of a three-day wedding weekend for the couple, who were high school sweethearts and are the parents of two sons. They were engaged just after midnight on Jan. 1, 2012, when James dropped to a knee and surprised his longtime girlfriend by finally popping the question as many of their close friends were gathered around.

James told AP last year that he and Brinson decided not to rush plans for their wedding, especially since last summer was hectic for him basketball-wise – James played for the U.S. in the London Olympics, helping the Americans win a gold medal, and also was involved in the wedding for one of his longtime close friends.
So the date was set for this offseason, and even after a 21-month engagement, very few details leaked out – including why the wedding was taking place in San Diego, especially since the couple still considers Akron, Ohio as home and have essentially been based in Miami for three years now.

Also unclear: If the couple would be using social media to make any statement about the wedding – James has more than 14 million fans on Facebook, and nearly 10 million followers on Twitter.

The measures to ensure privacy were hardly a surprise. In an interview with AP last spring, Brinson acknowledged that she's leery of media coverage, since she hasn't always found it to be fair or factual.
"I've heard things about me that are bad, where they've literally looked up into the sky and said, `What can they say about Savannah?,'" Brinson told AP in April. "It's going to happen."

Television stations in San Diego showed aerial images of the hotel, including large tents set up for both the reception and to shroud the arrival of guests. In some cases, umbrellas were even used to protect the identity of wedding-arrivers from prying eyes in the sky, and people who tried to gain access to the hotel just to get a better look were quickly ushered away and told only that a private event was taking place.

Even some local vendors in the San Diego area thought they had a role in the wedding – though were not themselves actually sure if that was the case. The Village Mill Bread Company – located about 3 miles from the wedding site – told Fox affiliate KSWB that someone ordered 500 loaves of Brioche from them to be delivered Saturday, but would not confirm that they were heading to the James-Brinson nuptials.

James is a four-time NBA Most Valuable Player, and he will be back in Miami later this month to resume preparing for training camp. James is scheduled to address reporters when the Heat hold their annual media day on Sept. 30, and the first practice of the new season is scheduled for Oct. 1.

Vintage Emmys Photos From The 1950s And 1960s/Operation Confidence

Vintage Emmy s Photos From The 1950s And 1960s/Operation Confidence 

Way before Tina Fey and Damian Lewis were posing with their statues, iconic stars like Lucille Ball and Dick Van Dyke were walking the red carpet at the Primetime Emmy Awards.

In preparation for the 2013 Emmys on Sept. 22, we decided to take a trip down memory lane and relive some of the best Emmy moments from the 1950s and 1960s.


Los Angeles Mayor Fletcher Bowron and Evie deWolf, 1st Annual Emmy Awards in 1949.
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Desi Arnaz and Lucille Ball in 1953.
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Art Carney in 1954.
art carney
Art Linkletter and Ralph Edwards in 1955.
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Danny Thomas and Loretta Young in 1955.
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Sid Caesar, Nanette Fabray, Pat Carroll and Carl Reiner in 1957.
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Lassie the collie dog in 1958.
lassie
Robert Young and Jane Wyatt in 1958.
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Bob Newhart in 1959.
bob newhart
Ann-Margret in 1960.
ann margaret
Robert Stack and Fred Astaire in 1960.
robert stack
Barbara Stanwyck in 1961.
barbara stanwyck
Joanne Jordan and Nanette Fabray in 1961.
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Dick Van Dyke and Milton Berle in 1962.
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Peter Falk and Loretta Young in 1962.
peter loretta
Richard Deacon, Carl Reiner, Dick Van Dyke, Mary Tyler Moore and Jerry Paris in 1964.
mary tyler moore
Barbra Streisand in 1965.
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Bill Cosby and his wife Camille in 1966.
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Maureen Stapleton in 1968.
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Friday, September 13, 2013

Delhi gang rape: Four sentenced to death

Delhi gang rape: Four sentenced to death



Anger about the deadly assault has had a widespread impact in India. It set off demonstrations, started a debate about women's treatment in Indian society and prompted the introduction of tougher punishments for sexual abuse.

"We are very happy. Justice has been delivered," said the father of the victim, whose name was withheld under Indian law.

Calls for the men to be executed had come from the victim's family members, high-profile politicians and many other Indians.

The announcement of the sentence was met with cheering from hundreds of protesters outside the court. Posters and banners held by those in the crowd read "hang the rapists" and "a woman's life is the foundation, do not defile it."

Indian Home Minister Sushilkumar Shinde said his initial reaction was that "justice was given to that girl and family."

Defense attorneys had urged the judge to show leniency and sentence the men to life in prison, saying the death penalty should be the exception, not the rule.

As the judge announced the death sentence, defense lawyer A.P. Singh shouted, "This is not the victory of truth. But it is the defeat of justice."

A shocking attack

The brutality of the New Delhi attack, as described by police and prosecutors, helped stir the strong emotions surrounding the case.

On the evening of December 16, the victim, a 23-year-old physiotherapy student, had gone to see the movie "The Life of Pi" with a male friend at a New Delhi mall.

During their journey home, they boarded a bus at a major intersection in upmarket South Delhi.
The driver and at least five other men on the bus were drunk and looking for a "joy ride," police said.
The men, from a poverty-ridden slum on the outskirts of Delhi, dragged the woman to the back of the bus and beat up her male friend.

Police said the men took turns raping the woman, using an iron rod to violate her as the bus drove around the city for almost an hour. When they had finished, they dumped the two victims by the side of the road.
The woman's injuries were so severe that some internal organs had to be removed. She died two weeks later at a hospital in Singapore.
Four found guilty

New Delhi (CNN) -- An Indian court sentenced four men to death Friday for the rape and murder of a 23-year-old woman in New Delhi, an attack that appalled the South Asian nation.
Announcing the sentence, Judge Yogesh Khanna said the crime "shocked the collective conscience" of India and fell into the "rarest of rare category" that deserves capital punishment.

"In these times when crimes against women are on the rise, the court cannot turn a blind eye to this gruesome act," he said.

One of the convicted men, Vinay Sharma, broke down in tears and cried loudly as the judge spoke.
Prosecutors had asked for the death penalty for the men, citing the "extreme brutality" of the attack, which took place on a moving bus in December. They had also argued the court needed to send a message to Indian society with its judgment.


Anger about the deadly assault has had a widespread impact in India. It set off demonstrations, started a debate about women's treatment in Indian society and prompted the introduction of tougher punishments for sexual abuse.

"We are very happy. Justice has been delivered," said the father of the victim, whose name was withheld under Indian law.

Calls for the men to be executed had come from the victim's family members, high-profile politicians and many other Indians.

The announcement of the sentence was met with cheering from hundreds of protesters outside the court. Posters and banners held by those in the crowd read "hang the rapists" and "a woman's life is the foundation, do not defile it."

Indian Home Minister Sushilkumar Shinde said his initial reaction was that "justice was given to that girl and family."

Defense attorneys had urged the judge to show leniency and sentence the men to life in prison, saying the death penalty should be the exception, not the rule.

As the judge announced the death sentence, defense lawyer A.P. Singh shouted, "This is not the victory of truth. But it is the defeat of justice."

A shocking attack

The brutality of the New Delhi attack, as described by police and prosecutors, helped stir the strong emotions surrounding the case.

On the evening of December 16, the victim, a 23-year-old physiotherapy student, had gone to see the movie "The Life of Pi" with a male friend at a New Delhi mall.

During their journey home, they boarded a bus at a major intersection in upmarket South Delhi.
The driver and at least five other men on the bus were drunk and looking for a "joy ride," police said.
The men, from a poverty-ridden slum on the outskirts of Delhi, dragged the woman to the back of the bus and beat up her male friend.

Police said the men took turns raping the woman, using an iron rod to violate her as the bus drove around the city for almost an hour. When they had finished, they dumped the two victims by the side of the road.

The woman's injuries were so severe that some internal organs had to be removed. She died two weeks later at a hospital in Singapore.

Four found guilty


23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing


23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing

                             Click here: 23 Things Every Woman Should Stop Doing

It is conventional wisdom that we’re our own worst enemies and despite the cliche, the idea rings true. We often drive ourselves insane striving for perfection in our experiences, relationships and selves, and honestly it just becomes exhausting. So here at HuffPost Women we’re issuing a challenge to ourselves -- and other women -- to stop doing these 23 things. (Of course it’s all easier said than done, but to employ another cliche, if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.)

1. Apologizing all the time. Research has shown that women actually do say “sorry” more often than men. We’re all for taking responsibility when you make a mistake -- but constantly apologizing for having your waiter split the check or asking a date to hang out on a different night or telling a friend about your problems, does more harm than good. There’s no need to qualify everything you do. Own your preferences and decisions.

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2. Saying “yes” to everyone else. Yes, I will meet you for coffee even though I’m exhausted and just want to go home and crawl into bed. Yes, I will edit your resume even though I’m swamped with my own work. Yes, I will go on a double date with you, your almost-boyfriend and his awful friend who’s in town. Stop saying “yes” when you don’t truly mean it. People actually respect you more when you set boundaries.

3. Saying “no” to yourself. A lot of women spend a whole lot of time deciding what we can’t do or shouldn't do or aren't good enough to do. Don’t allow your insecurities and anxieties to make your decisions for you -- you’ll only end up missing out on worthwhile experiences. So go talk to that group of people you think you won’t fit in with, stay out late against your better judgment every once in awhile and treat yourself to that blowout even if you don’t really need it.

4. Viewing food as the enemy. Women often receive the message that our ultimate worth lies in our looks. Our hair should be smoothed or perfectly curled, our makeup on at all times -- but natural-looking -- and our bodies bangin’ (read: thin). In the quest to achieve these impossible standards, it’s easy to see food as something to contend with rather than to enjoy. Be cognizant of what you put in your body -- after all, it’s the only one you have -- but try to do away with the guilt. Savor every bite of that gnocchi with gorgonzola or that Mint Chocolate Chip ice cream or those fresh cherry tomatoes. Food should not come with regrets. As Nora Ephron wrote, “I have made a lot of mistakes falling in love, and regretted most of them, but never the potatoes that went with them.”

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5. Body-snarking -- out loud or in your own head. Stop putting your looks down, period. Nothing good will ever come of it, unless you’re working through body issues with your therapist.

6. Feeling like an impostor when you accomplish something professionally. Women are more likely than men to feel like “impostors” at work, often doubting whether we deserve the successes we achieve. Start taking your accomplishments at face value. You got that new job or promotion or grade or public recognition because you were worthy of it.

7. Obsessively untagging every “unflattering” photo of you that ever existed online. While it makes sense that you don’t want that photo of you blinking showing up all over your Facebook profile, we probably cause ourselves more anxiety than necessary making sure every image that doesn’t show us in perfect lighting doing something totally amazing goes away. It’s not only just one more way for us to obsess about our looks -- after all, people will post what they’ll post and we have little control -- but online photo albums have largely replaced physical ones. You may not want to remember the unflattering face you made at your brother’s graduation party now, but down the line you might want to conjure the moment.

internet addiction

8. Comparing your real life to someone else’s virtual one. Spending a ton of time obsessing over your own online life can be anxiety-provoking -- but so can obsessing over other peoples’ virtual personas. Research has shown that Facebook addiction is correlated with lower self-esteem. And who wouldn’t feel bad sitting in bed on a Monday night scrolling through your ex’s vacation photo album or the enthusiastic statuses your friend in the fashion industry posted during a celeb-filled party? Instead of playing a constant game of comparison, which studies have shown can actually magnify feelings of depression, just close your laptop and enjoy the present. At least it’s real.

9. Holding on to regrets and guilt. “I’m pretty anti-regret,” Lena Dunham said at the 2012 New Yorker Festival. Guilt and regret are two emotions that usually serve to torture the person feeling them. Acknowledge your regrets and guilts, and then move on to the best of your ability.

10. Wearing heels every day. Look at this terrifying infographic and then tell me why it’s a good idea to force your poor feet into stilettos on a daily basis. We love a gorgeous pair of pumps, but embracing comfort (most of the time) will not only make your commute a whole lot more pleasant, but your feet a whole lot happier for years to come. Plus, flat shoes can be super stylish.

heels dress code

11. Judging other women’s sex lives. No woman deserves to be put down for who she sleeps with, how many people she sleeps with or how she chooses to express her sexuality. Next time you’re about to call another woman a “prude” or a “slut” just zip your lips. Even Miley Cyrus and her twerking shouldn’t be slut-shamed.

12. Judging your own sex life. No one needs to know your “number.” And honestly, you probably care a whole lot more about what the sex you’re having (or not having) supposedly says about you than anyone else does.

13. Trying to be “chill.” Maybe you truly are the “cool girl” who loves nothing more than kicking back with a six-pack and a movie. But for those of us who don’t possess the “chill” gene, let’s stop trying. Striving to be the mellow girl at all times keeps us from expressing our needs, desires and opinions.

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14. Fearing the label “crazy.” There is no easier way to discredit a woman’s opinion or feelings
 than to accuse her of being overly emotional. “I don't think this idea that women are ‘crazy,’ is based in some sort of massive conspiracy,” wrote author Yashar Ali in a blog for The Huffington Post in 2011. “Rather, I believe it's connected to the slow and steady drumbeat of women being undermined and dismissed, on a daily basis.” Being scared of the label only encourages women to silence themselves. Plus, everyone has a little bit of crazy inside of them -- regardless of gender.

15. WebMD-ing everything. Your glands may have been swollen for a week but it does not automatically mean that you have a massive tumor in your neck. Step away from the Internet doctor and go see a real one if you’re truly worried.

16. Worrying that your life doesn’t look like Pinterest. You are not Martha Stewart. You will probably never make that DIY floating bookshelf. And your Eggocado will never look as delicious as this one does.

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17. Fearing being alone. There are certain things you have control over -- like trying to go on dates, and actively meeting new people -- and others which you simply don’t. Finding a life partner (or even a temporary one) is one of those things. You can’t pinpoint when or where or how you’ll meet someone to spend your life with, so stop freaking yourself out over the idea that you never will. And there are far worse things than being alone. “The most profound relationship we'll ever have is the one with ourselves,” Shirley MacLaine once said. Preach.

18. Being in relationships for the sake of having a relationship. If you’re terrified of being alone, the worst thing you can do is jump into a relationship you don’t really want. Nothing good comes from tying yourself to a person who isn’t right for you simply because you feel the need to couple up. As Nora Ephron wrote when she launched HuffPost Divorce: “Marriages come and go, but divorce is forever.”

19. Not taking advantage of your vacation days. More Americans than ever are forgoing their (already meager) paid vacation days -- despite the fact that we know that people who take time off are more likely to be healthy, happy and productive workers. We swear, no one will die if you turn off your cell phone and head to the mountains for a long weekend.

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20. Holding on to toxic friendships. Banish any Regina George-like frenemies from your life ASAP. Life is too short to waste time with people who make you feel like crap.

21. Spending time with people out of obligation. Just because you spent every waking moment of your elementary school days with someone doesn’t mean you have anything in common with her now. There’s no need to see every old friend and third cousin who passes through your city. Be intentional about who you spend your time with and allow yourself to let some relationships fade away naturally.

22. Being embarrassed about your interests. “I want to be a f**king feminist and wear a f**king Peter Pan collar. So f**king what?,” said Zooey Deschanel in Glamour magazine’s February 2013 issue. Take a cue from the actress and stop caring what you “should” look like/care about/talk about. If you love girly things, love girly things. If you don’t, don’t. Embrace your lack of knowledge about music, your hockey obsession and your weakness for both “Breaking Bad” and “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.” And if there’s a particular subject area you don’t know about but you encounter someone who does? Take the opportunity to ask questions.

23. Setting deadlines for major life events. Don’t try to meticulously plan out when you should find love or have babies or get that dream job or buy that amazing brownstone. Enjoy the uncertainty of life and allow yourself to be overjoyed when you hit those milestones or pleasantly surprised when you realize you want to skip out on some of them altogether.

Baby Elephant Weeps When Separated From Mother/Operation Confidence

Baby Elephant Weeps When Separated From Mother/Operation Confidence 


It's not unusual to hear of new mothers rejecting their young in zoos and in the wild, but we may not think about how it affects the rejected newborns emotionally. In the case of an elephant calf named Zhuang-zhuang, it was devastating.

Operation Confidence comments: Ah, don't cry little baby elephant 

Selma Blair Threatens Lawsuit Against Charlie Sheen


Selma Blair Threatens Lawsuit Against Charlie Sheen 




Selma Blair is reportedly threatening to sue Charlie Sheen in a retaliation lawsuit over her firing on the FX show "Anger Management."

She is demanding the $1.2 million that she would have made had if she stayed on the show, reports TMZ. If she does not get it, she will file a suit.

Sources told TMZ that after Blair called Sheen a slacker, Sheen sped up the process to write her off the show.

But sources also claim that the plan was already in place to write Blair off the show, because America did not want to see him with just one girlfriend.

In an interview with Jay Leno on Sept. 12, Sheen talked for the first time about firing Blair.

"Selma Blair ... was written out because [the show] was not about our relationship, and the problem was too many people were still excited about the 'Two and a Half [Men]' character and thought the 'Anger Management' character was a little dull," he said.

TMZ adds that Lionsgate and Blair are in talks to try and settle and avoid a lawsuit.

Thursday, September 12, 2013

Robin Thicke And Paula Patton Have The Most 'Dysfunctional Marriage In Hollywood,' He Says

Robin Thicke And Paula Patton Have The Most 'Dysfunctional Marriage In Hollywood,' He Says 




The "Blurred Lines" singer opened up to Star about his union with Paula Patton, whom he's known since he was 14. The two married in 2005 and have a son, Julian Fuego Thicke, 3.

However, the couple was recently under scrutiny after a photo surfaced of Thicke with socialite Lana Scolaro, who claimed she and the singer made out at the VMAs after-party at 1Oak. When asked about the scandal, Thicke quickly put the rumors to rest.

"My only comment about the so-called scandalous photo would be that my wife and I are perfectly in love and very happily married," he said.

Famous Restaurant Chains That Are Hard to Find Read more: Famous Restaurant Chains That Are Hard to Find


Famous Restaurant Chains That Are Hard to Find

Many of America’s once-great restaurant chains are now impossible to find. While McDonald’s and Subway locations continue to multiply, Howard Johnson’s and Chi-Chi’s are all but forgotten.

24/7 Wall St. relied on food industry consulting and research firm Technomic to identify famous American chain restaurants that have either completely vanished, moved overseas or have only a few locations left. In their heyday, these restaurants had hundreds, if not thousands, of locations. As of 2012, most of these once successful brands had just 25 stores or fewer across the country.

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Most of the chains that make the list are casual dining restaurants like Chi-Chi’s and Ground Round. According to Technomic’s Vice President Darren Tristano, their troubles were due to increased competition from larger, more successful operations such as Applebee’s, TGIF, Olive Garden and Red Lobster.
“Those brands did better in terms of expansion, and set the bar much higher,” Tristano said. “It’s really a combination of greater unit expansion. Those that couldn’t keep up and didn’t have the franchises or the financing struggled.”

Many of these restaurants experienced sudden declines in the early 1980s. Sambo’s was once a national brand with more than 1,000 locations. However, a combination of financial problems and a troubling association with racist imagery used in advertisements forced Sambo’s into bankruptcy and resulted in the closure of more than 400 locations.

For other chains, the troubles began much later. In the case of Bennigan’s and Steak & Ale, a slowing economy during the recession led to lower earnings and an inability of their parent company to service debt. As a result, the chains were liquidated with little warning.

Bennigan’s parent company, Metromedia Restaurant Group, filed for Chapter 7 bankruptcy in 2008. All Steak & Ale locations were closed. The more than 200 Irish-themed locations dropped to just a few dozen. The company has emerged from bankruptcy under new ownership. While some are optimistic about the brand’s prospects, “recovery generally means you’ve hit bottom, but in their case, they’ve continued to close underperforming units,” Tristano warned.

To determine the famous restaurant chains that are now hard to find, 24/7 Wall St. identified brands that, according to Technomic, had hundreds of U.S. locations at their peak between the 1980s and 1990s and a national presence. As of 2012, these restaurant chains could have, at most, only a small number of locations.

These are famous restaurants chains that are hard to  find.

Howard Johnson’s was, for decades, one of the most well-recognized American businesses in the country. The franchise expanded from a single ice cream store located in Quincy, Mass., in 1927 to an empire of restaurants and hotels. By the 1970s, there were more than 1,000 Howard Johnson’s restaurants in the United States. Currently, there are only two restaurants in the entire country: one in Bangor, Me., and one in Lake Placid, N.Y. One of the factors contributing to the decline of the chain was the decline of the motel industry nationwide, according to Tristano. The chain has since shifted focus to its hotel division and now maintains properties across the world.

2. Mister Donut
> Restaurants in 2012: 0
> Restaurants in 1980: 835
> Year founded: 1955

Harry Winouker founded Mister Donut in 1955 after dismantling a failed business venture with his brother-in-law, Bill Rosenberg, the future founder of Dunkin’ Donuts. By 1970, there were hundreds of franchised locations across the United States, and the brand was acquired by International Multifoods, at the time one of America’s biggest food companies. In 1983, Japan’s Duskin Co. Ltd. bought the rights to Mister Donut for all of Asia. Since then, the brand has caught on in Japan, where it is the largest donut chain, with more than 1,100 stores. Worldwide, there are more than 10,000 Mister Donut stores. But as the brand expanded abroad, it vanished at home. Currently, there are no Mister Donut locations in the U.S., after most were acquired in 1990 by Dunkin’ Donuts’ former parent company Allied-Lyons. “The growth of Starbucks and Dunkin’ Brands, and their domination of the U.S. has certainly forced out Mister Donut, and other donut places,” said Tristano.

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3. Steak & Ale
> Restaurants in 2012: 0
> Restaurants in 1980: 196
> Year founded: 1966
Steak & Ale was once, alongside Bennigan’s, part of Pillsbury’s chain restaurant holdings. In 1980, there were just under 200 Steak & Ale locations in the United States. But by 2008, that number had dropped to 50. That is when S&A Restaurant Corp., which ran the chain as well as Bennigan’s, filed for bankruptcy. Although Bennigan’s has been revitalized and continues to operate, Steak & Ale no longer exists. Both chains were conceived by Norman E. Brinker, who also helped to popularize Chili’s and built Brinker International Inc. (NYSE: EAT), one of the nation’s largest food companies.
4. Chi-Chi’s
> Restaurants in 2012: 0
> Restaurants in 1980: 81
> Year founded: 1975
Chi-Chi’s was founded in Minneapolis in 1975 as a family-style Mexican restaurant. By 1985, the company had nearly 200 locations around the country. But, according to Tristano, the success of other Mexican-themed chains like Taco Bell and Chipotle began to chip away at the company’s success. In 2011, Chi-Chi’s filed for bankruptcy. At the time of the filing, the chain had roughly $100 million in debt. Shortly after the filing, a hepatitis A outbreak at a location resulted in several deaths. All franchise restaurants have since closed. However, “Chi-Chi’s still has their brand licensed for salsa and tortilla chips. So the brand is still around, even though they have no restaurants,” Tristano added.
5. Ground Round> Restaurants in 2012: 25> Restaurants in 1980: 177> Year founded: 1969

Ground Round was founded as a pub-style restaurant in 1969 with a small menu and casual environment. The chain was once part of the 1,000 Howard Johnson’s stores. Now, the brand is owned by its own franchisees, who acquired the assets of Ground Round in a bankruptcy sale in 2004. As of 2012, there were just 25 locations nationwide, mostly in northern states, with four in North Dakota and seven in Minnesota. According to the Farmington Independent, a new Ground Round location will open in Farmington, Minn., in September. The restaurants were located primarily in more rural locations and were forced out by other national chains like Buffalo Wild Wings and Applebees, according to Tristano.

6. Sambo’s
> Restaurants in 2012: 1
> Restaurants in 1980: 1,118
> Year founded: 1957

Sambo’s was named after its two founders, Sam Battistone and Newell “Bo” Bohnett. At one point the chain included 1,118 restaurants. However, many customers, especially in the Northeast, felt uncomfortable with the name and the company’s history. In its early marketing efforts, Sambo’s used the principal character from Helen Bannerman’s 1899 book “Little Black Sambo,” which has been widely criticized for promoting negative racial stereotypes. Issues of political correctness were damaging to the brand as early as the 1970s, Tristano said. The chain suffered from financial troubles and filed for bankruptcy in late 1981 after failing to restructure its debt. The first Sambo’s in Santa Barbara, which is owned by the founder’s grandson, remains in business.

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7. Bennigans
> Restaurants in 2012: 32
> Restaurants in 1980: 40
> Year founded: 1976

Irish-American-themed restaurant Bennigan’s was founded in 1976. It was owned for a time by the Pillsbury Corp., which also owned Burger King. After finding success in the 1990s, Bennigan’s began facing heavy competition from other casual family chain restaurants such as Chili’s, Applebee’s and TGIF. In 2008, Bennigan’s filed for bankruptcy and closed more than 200 franchises. Currently, there are just 32 Bennigan’s locations in the United States. But the company has come out of bankruptcy under new ownership, and there may be hope for the future of the restaurant chain. Tristano noted, however, that the chain was still closing its weakest-performing restaurants.


Demi Moore Dating Ex-Boyfriend's Father: Report/Operation Confidence

Demi Moore Dating Ex-Boyfriend's Father: Report/Operation Confidence


Is Demi Moore beginning to gain an appreciation for older men?

According to E! News, the 50-year-old actress has been dating restaurateur Peter Morton -- the 66-year-old father of her rumored ex-boyfriend Harry Morton, who apparently introduced the two -- for a few months. "They are into one another," a source tells E!, adding that the elder Morton "is very charismatic and she loves that about him. He's a go-getter."

"Go-getter" is a bit of an understatement, considering Morton, the son of steakhouse founder Arnie Morton, started the Hard Rock Café chain back in the early '80s. Translation: He's loaded.

Like Moore, who's in the process of finalizing her divorce from third husband Ashton Kutcher, Morton has more than one failed marriage in his wake. E! also reports that the father of three has met Moore's three daughters.

The age-defying actress reportedly romanced the younger Morton (a Lindsay Lohan ex) for about six months before parting ways earlier this year. Since her split from Kutcher, she's also been linked to actor Martin Henderson, 38, art dealer Vito Schnabel, 27, and pearl diver Will Hanigan, 30.

Operation Confidence comments: You go girl


Jyoti Amge, The World's Shortest Woman, Launches Guinness World Records 2014

Jyoti Amge, The World's Shortest Woman, Launches Guinness World Records 2014

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When Ranjana Amge was in the final months of her fifth pregnancy, she feared that she'd never hold that baby in her arms.

The doctor's exams didn't go well. Experts didn't know what to make of her sonograms. Something was wrong.

Now, 20 years later, Amge has reason to be proud. Her youngest daughter is happy, healthy and world famous.

"All the bad feelings are erased, replaced by good ones," Amge tells The Huffington Post. "We are lucky."
At just under 25 inches tall, Jyoti Amge of Nagpur, India, is the world's shortest woman. She's a college-bound student, with dreams of making it as an actress. Still, she weighs just 12 pounds -- only nine pounds more than she did at birth.

Even among dwarfs, Amge is tiny. "Game Of Thrones" star Peter Dinklage is more than twice her height. But Amge remains an optimist.

"It's hard for me to reach things," Amge says. "It's good I have brothers and sisters to help."

On her first trip to New York, Amge visited the Statue of Liberty, before a media tour to launch the Guinness World Records 2014 edition, which would include a profile in the Daily News, a visit to the ladies of "The View" and a press conference at the top of the Empire State Building.

Amge is the only little person in her family. She was born without the growth hormones necessary to achieve a normal height. Though she has a severe form of dwarfism, she attended public school and helps her parents around the house as she can.

Amge entered the Guinness World Records book several years ago, as the world's shortest teen. As spokeswoman for the new book, she's in town to remind us that the 2014 edition is filled with amazing photos, stories and interactive apps, including one that will allow you to see how you'd look with the world's longest tongue.

This year's book features the largest walking robot, the shortest donkey, the tallest useable pogo stick, and a tightrope-walking dog.

Amge kicks off festivities for the Guinness World Records 2014 launch Thursday with an event at the Empire State Building. 

Drowsy Driving Accident Highlights Danger Of Underreported Problem



Drowsy Driving Accident Highlights Danger Of Underreported Problem



"It sounded like it was raining in my car my head was bleeding so bad."

Trapped in the wreckage of her car, Rachel Johnson spent three and a half hours in a ditch on the side of the highway, waiting for help that wouldn't come until daylight. Johnson had been on her way to surprise a friend, driving through Iowa in the middle of the night. Just prior to the crash, she noticed that she was feeling drowsy.

"Instead of pulling over, I just thought, 'I'm not tired enough to fall asleep,'" she told KETV. "And two seconds is all it took."

Johnson nodded off and rolled her car violently onto the side of the road, where, in the pitch darkness, car after car drove past, unable to see the twisted metal of the wreck and the woman clinging to life trapped inside.

Alarming numbers

Johnson's story serves as a cautionary tale for what has become a serious public safety issue: Drowsy driving. According to several government agencies and private research groups, fatigue behind the wheel is a growing problem, and can be just as serious as drunk driving.

The Fatality Analysis Reporting System (FARS), a system used to detail the factors behind traffic deaths, showed that in 2011, about 2 percent of fatal accidents involved a driver being asleep or fatigued behind the wheel.

That may not sound like a lot, and, on the surface, the numbers are hardly suggestive of an epidemic. But the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration (NHTSA) knows that these stats aren't telling the whole story. Drowsiness as a factor in fatal accidents is much more difficult to quantify than it may seem, according to Jurek Grabowski, Research Director at AAA.

"Only 2 percent of fatal accidents are coded as involving a drowsy driver," Grabowski said. Meaning, that's what the police who reported the accident determined the cause of the crash to be.

The reality is that most of the time, it is entirely unclear if a driver was drowsy at the time of a fatal accident. A dead driver can't tell a responding police officer that they were feeling sleepy when they went off the road or hit another car. This results in inaccurate reporting. Grabowski said that a whopping 73 percent of fatal accidents go down in the books as having drowsiness as a possible factor, but not an official factor.

Grabowski and his team recently ran a statistical analysis that looked at the official reporting of drowsiness in fatal accidents, and after doing the math, drowsy driving looked like a much more serious problem. The more realistic numbers, he said, are 11.6 percent in fatal accidents and 16.5 percent in all crashes.

So what is going on here? Simply put, people aren't getting enough sleep, according to Dr. Elizabeth A. Baker, a regional administrator at NHTSA. And driving while sleep deprived is very similar to being driving drunk, impairing motor skills, vision, cognitive ability and decision-making.

Our modern American culture places little value on sleep, and people are getting less and less of it every year. An increasing number of us don't go to bed at a proper time, suffer from sleep apnea and other disorders, work at night or are overweight or have other health issues, all of which disrupt our circadian rhythms and keep us from having a restful night.

A recent NHTSA survey found that 60 percent of drivers drove while drowsy in the past year. A 2009 National Sleep Foundation poll of 1,000 drivers found that 28 percent had driven drowsy in the past month, an alarming 28 percent had actually nodded off or fallen asleep while behind the wheel and 1 percent had an accident as a result of being sleepy or falling asleep.

Combatting drowsy driving

"We have a long way to go to make a dent in this serious problem," said Baker. Because of the lowball accident and fatality numbers and general lack of awareness about drowsy driving, tools to combat the issue have been slow to develop. Laws aimed at punishing drowsy drivers are in the works, but no real testing parameters for fatigue have been designed for use in the field.

The Center for Disease Control (CDC), AAA and the National Sleep Foundation have launched education and awareness programs. Government and private industry groups are also undergoing more comprehensive studies, like Grabowski's, to get a better idea of how many, when and where people are engaging in the risky behavior.

Car companies have begun to include safety technology that alert people when they are driving drowsy. Mercedes-Benz and Volvo both have developed systems that can sense a fatigued driver and warn them accordingly.

The most successful recent development in combating drowsy driving has come in the form of new infrastructure. Rumble strips on the side and center lines of roads that are designed to alert a driver when they are drifting from their lane have been highly effective, said Baker. And better rest areas have been made more available, giving drivers the chance to pull of the road.

At the end of the day, though, the most effective way to combat drowsy driving is to not engage in the behavior yourself. As a whole, we need to sleep more, drink less and be much more self-regulatory when we're feeling drowsy behind the wheel, said Dr. Anne G. Wheaton, an epidemiologist at the CDC.

If you're experiencing drowsiness behind the wheel, which can be diagnosed by yawning, inability to remember the last couple of miles driven, blinking more than usual, having trouble keeping eyes open and/or hitting a rumble strip, you need to get off the road, she said.

"It's not just about falling asleep -- the ability to drive is impaired," she said.

If you experience these symptoms, the best thing to do is to stop driving and find a place to sleep. If that's impossible, the next best thing to do is to drink some form of caffeinated beverage and take a short nap while you wait for it to kick in. This only works for a limited time, however, and should only be used as a strategy to get you somewhere you can sleep for a proper amount of time.

Popular remedies to fatigue behind the wheel like turning up the radio, opening windows and exercising don't work, according to Dr. Wheaton.

A remarkable recovery

After she was found, Johnson was life-flighted to the hospital, where doctors assessed her physical state. It was bad. She had lost so much blood that her body temperature was down to 88 degrees. Her spine was completely broken near the neck, and doctors told her that she had very little chance of ever using her hands or legs again. But she never gave up hope.

"At first I thought about that and it made me sad," Johnson told KETV. "But then I thought, no there's a chance. Because someone has to be that lower percentage, so why not me?"

Never giving up, she worked at her rehabilitation for weeks and, after a while, began to regain usage of her arms. She can now put on makeup and use a cell phone. She is still confined to a wheelchair, but she has vowed that she'll continue to work on her physical therapy and, one day, walk again.

Johnson's story comes with a marginally happy ending, but there are still thousands out there that do not. Every day, we're on the road, functioning at a fraction of safe mental capacity because we're tired. Remember to look for the warning signs, especially when driving at night or on lonely roads, and you can help reduce the risk of a tragedy.